If you show partiality, you commit sin. —James 2:9
Today's ODB reflection is especially lovely, and I'd urge you to read it as well as the recommended Bible passages. It reminds us of a common sin of omission. It's easy to hide this sin, because it's not something you do... rather, it's something that we should do but we often don't. James puts it in a very straightforward way... it's sin. Don't do it.
Of course, it's not easy to recognize that we do, but we do. There have been studies about how few people acknowledge the presence of maintenance workers around school buildings and treat different groups of people with differing levels of respect. When our Father says, "No. You're all the same. You're all my children." We are all equally important to our Lord God, and we should treat everyone as our brother/sister. Because they are, in Christ. And as a part of the same Christian family, we share a one purpose and one flock.
One Purpose
7 That night God appeared to Solomon and said to him, "Ask for whatever you want me to give you."
8 Solomon answered God, "You have shown great kindness to David my father and have made me king in his place. 9 Now, LORD God, let your promise to my father David be confirmed, for you have made me king over a people who are as numerous as the dust of the earth. 10 Give me wisdom and knowledge, that I may lead this people, for who is able to govern this great people of yours?"
11 God said to Solomon, "Since this is your heart's desire and you have not asked for wealth, riches or honor, nor for the death of your enemies, and since you have not asked for a long life but for wisdom and knowledge to govern my people over whom I have made you king, 12 therefore wisdom and knowledge will be given you. And I will also give you wealth, riches and honor, such as no king who was before you ever had and none after you will have." -2 Chronicles 1:7-12
Another word for partiality is favoritism, and one form of favoritism is favoring ourselves over others. Pastor Marcos Inhauser in Brazil calls this 'the bellybutton complex.' When we look at 'me, me, me" all the time. What do I want? What do I need instead of what is best for my family, my church, my community, my environment?
Solomon showed his wisdom to be already apparent in not asking for the wealth and riches that would make him 'favored' in society. Instead his asked for wisdom and knowledge... and here's the key. He asked for them, for the good of his people. This is one thing that I love so much about Brad... so often when we are making decisions, I know that he doing it for my good. From wedding pictures to puppies to living arrangements... our purposes are becoming one, as we ask the Lord to make us one. And the unity of marriage represents our own Christian lives, in which we ask to be one flock...
One Flock
11"I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. 12The hired hand is not the shepherd who owns the sheep. So when he sees the wolf coming, he abandons the sheep and runs away. Then the wolf attacks the flock and scatters it. 13The man runs away because he is a hired hand and cares nothing for the sheep.
14"I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me— 15just as the Father knows me and I know the Father—and I lay down my life for the sheep. 16I have other sheep that are not of this sheep pen. I must bring them also. They too will listen to my voice, and there shall be one flock and one shepherd. 17The reason my Father loves me is that I lay down my life—only to take it up again. 18No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord. I have authority to lay it down and authority to take it up again. This command I received from my Father." -John 10:11-18
And I pray that we would all be able to have one purpose and all be able to see ourselves as one. Independent of denominations, cultures, skin color, languages, we could respect and appreciate and love one another. I sometimes find that Christians, who are part of the same family, are often involved in so much 'sibling rivalry' so to speak, that it must distract from our overarching purpose of living for the Lord and loving everyone into a relationship with Jesus Christ.
Relient K puts it this way in their song, "Down in Flames":
Christians-- we're all afraid of fire.
We prefer to suck on pacifiers.
Baby pacifists, we're throwing fits.
We don't shake hands, we shake our fists.
We're cannibals.
We watch our brothers fall.
We eat our own, the bones and all.
Finally fell asleep on the plane
to wake to see we're going down in flames.
"We eat our own, the bones and all." I pray that we would recognize that we are one flock, with one shepherd, just as these verses from John point out. If we know our shepherd and he knows us, he puts us together in the same pen so that we would watch our for one another. Wolves aren't allowed, cannibals aren't allowed... only the sheep with a singularity of purpose and love. One for all and all for one.
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Be Strong
Ask anyone. They'll tell you that nothing tears down your strength and stamina like stress. And this illustrious "they" will also tell you that many weddings are a recipe for stress. Now honestly, Brad & I have been very fortunate to have an extremely supportive family (on both sides) and interactions that have been conflict-free and nothing less than loving. We've had nothing of the family tensions that people talk about, and that is a beautiful blessing.
Nevertheless, it's "crunch time," and I think all huge life changes are accompanied by some sort of stress. After all, it is a big deal. An important decision. A significant change... albeit a lovely one. And so, sometimes I feel anything but strong... a usually 'put-together' girl, at times I'm transformed into an emotional basketcase.
But, when we aren't strong, there is one who gives us strength.
My strength is in You, Lord.
Strength through Encouragement
20 David also said to Solomon his son, "Be strong and courageous, and do the work. Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the LORD God, my God, is with you. He will not fail you or forsake you until all the work for the service of the temple of the LORD is finished. 21 The divisions of the priests and Levites are ready for all the work on the temple of God, and every willing man skilled in any craft will help you in all the work. The officials and all the people will obey your every command." -1 Chronicles 28:20-21
Here David is talking to his son, and like most loving parents, he is encouraging. Be strong, and courageous and do the work. I've been reading up on puppy training recently, for my little puppy Shaya. And I've recently read about the 'scaredy cat' or 'scaredy pup' type. It recommends that the owner shouldn't constantly coddle the dog when they are afraid, because that will encourage the frightened behavior, making them continuously afraid of what they hear as they grow older. Instead, comfort the dog, telling them it's ok, but continue to portray confidence... giving the pup security.
Imagine if David had instilled a fear reaction in Solomon. He might not have grown into the wise king that he did. And his reasoning for Solomon was simple. In essence, he said, "Do not be afraid. Be strong, because... 1) God is with you, 2) He is faithful. 3) He will give you help. And we are in the same situation. Whenever we feel weak to complete a task... to build a temple, to go through with the wedding plans, to raise a puppy, to raise a child, to not worry about tomorrow and the questions it holds for housing and jobs, to forgive someone who has hurt us deeply. We need to remember that God is with us to help us, He is faithful, and He will give us help (family, friends, the Holy Spirit).
Strength through Prayer
14 "But who am I, and who are my people, that we should be able to give as generously as this? Everything comes from you, and we have given you only what comes from your hand. 15 We are aliens and strangers in your sight, as were all our forefathers. Our days on earth are like a shadow, without hope. 16 O LORD our God, as for all this abundance that we have provided for building you a temple for your Holy Name, it comes from your hand, and all of it belongs to you. 17 I know, my God, that you test the heart and are pleased with integrity. All these things have I given willingly and with honest intent. And now I have seen with joy how willingly your people who are here have given to you. 18 O LORD, God of our fathers Abraham, Isaac and Israel, keep this desire in the hearts of your people forever, and keep their hearts loyal to you. 19 And give my son Solomon the wholehearted devotion to keep your commands, requirements and decrees and to do everything to build the palatial structure for which I have provided." -1 Chronicles 29:14-19
While our words of reassurance and our works (physical help) are very important, prayer is also powerful. When we feel powerless to help in a situation, we must remember the amazing power of God... and the power that He gives to us through prayer. If we call upon our Father, praying for others in times of weakness and prayer for ourselves, He will be there for us.
I just went up to the hospital yesterday to pray for Tara's little 1 pound baby, and I continue to pray for her health. I know that this little dear needs our prayers, as does the whole family... and I could not imagine a more loving mother for her baby. Tara is tireless in her commitment to little Kaila Jeanine. She loves and cares and nurtures her baby, and she is there with her. And I believe God is there with both of them. And we pray for them... that God continue to give them great strength at this time.
Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord. -Psalm 27:14
This verse is one of my favorites, and although it sounds sweet, it is a hard verse to put into action when it needs to be put into action. When we are feeling weak, it is hard to wait, it is hard to take heart, it is hard to feel the strength of the Lord. But we are called to strength, and we know that if we wait on the Lord and trust in Him... He will grant us His strength... the strength that we need to do all that He has given us...
strength to forgive...
strength to love...
strength to nurture...
strength for today...
strength for tomorrow...
strength forever and ever. Amen.
Nevertheless, it's "crunch time," and I think all huge life changes are accompanied by some sort of stress. After all, it is a big deal. An important decision. A significant change... albeit a lovely one. And so, sometimes I feel anything but strong... a usually 'put-together' girl, at times I'm transformed into an emotional basketcase.
But, when we aren't strong, there is one who gives us strength.
My strength is in You, Lord.
Strength through Encouragement
20 David also said to Solomon his son, "Be strong and courageous, and do the work. Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the LORD God, my God, is with you. He will not fail you or forsake you until all the work for the service of the temple of the LORD is finished. 21 The divisions of the priests and Levites are ready for all the work on the temple of God, and every willing man skilled in any craft will help you in all the work. The officials and all the people will obey your every command." -1 Chronicles 28:20-21
Here David is talking to his son, and like most loving parents, he is encouraging. Be strong, and courageous and do the work. I've been reading up on puppy training recently, for my little puppy Shaya. And I've recently read about the 'scaredy cat' or 'scaredy pup' type. It recommends that the owner shouldn't constantly coddle the dog when they are afraid, because that will encourage the frightened behavior, making them continuously afraid of what they hear as they grow older. Instead, comfort the dog, telling them it's ok, but continue to portray confidence... giving the pup security.
Imagine if David had instilled a fear reaction in Solomon. He might not have grown into the wise king that he did. And his reasoning for Solomon was simple. In essence, he said, "Do not be afraid. Be strong, because... 1) God is with you, 2) He is faithful. 3) He will give you help. And we are in the same situation. Whenever we feel weak to complete a task... to build a temple, to go through with the wedding plans, to raise a puppy, to raise a child, to not worry about tomorrow and the questions it holds for housing and jobs, to forgive someone who has hurt us deeply. We need to remember that God is with us to help us, He is faithful, and He will give us help (family, friends, the Holy Spirit).
Strength through Prayer
14 "But who am I, and who are my people, that we should be able to give as generously as this? Everything comes from you, and we have given you only what comes from your hand. 15 We are aliens and strangers in your sight, as were all our forefathers. Our days on earth are like a shadow, without hope. 16 O LORD our God, as for all this abundance that we have provided for building you a temple for your Holy Name, it comes from your hand, and all of it belongs to you. 17 I know, my God, that you test the heart and are pleased with integrity. All these things have I given willingly and with honest intent. And now I have seen with joy how willingly your people who are here have given to you. 18 O LORD, God of our fathers Abraham, Isaac and Israel, keep this desire in the hearts of your people forever, and keep their hearts loyal to you. 19 And give my son Solomon the wholehearted devotion to keep your commands, requirements and decrees and to do everything to build the palatial structure for which I have provided." -1 Chronicles 29:14-19
While our words of reassurance and our works (physical help) are very important, prayer is also powerful. When we feel powerless to help in a situation, we must remember the amazing power of God... and the power that He gives to us through prayer. If we call upon our Father, praying for others in times of weakness and prayer for ourselves, He will be there for us.
I just went up to the hospital yesterday to pray for Tara's little 1 pound baby, and I continue to pray for her health. I know that this little dear needs our prayers, as does the whole family... and I could not imagine a more loving mother for her baby. Tara is tireless in her commitment to little Kaila Jeanine. She loves and cares and nurtures her baby, and she is there with her. And I believe God is there with both of them. And we pray for them... that God continue to give them great strength at this time.
Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord. -Psalm 27:14
This verse is one of my favorites, and although it sounds sweet, it is a hard verse to put into action when it needs to be put into action. When we are feeling weak, it is hard to wait, it is hard to take heart, it is hard to feel the strength of the Lord. But we are called to strength, and we know that if we wait on the Lord and trust in Him... He will grant us His strength... the strength that we need to do all that He has given us...
strength to forgive...
strength to love...
strength to nurture...
strength for today...
strength for tomorrow...
strength forever and ever. Amen.
Monday, May 24, 2010
It's All in the Family
I've been thinking about family a lot lately... and by extenIn our pre-marital counseling sessions, Uncle Rod mentioned the critical role of the family in the spiritual development of the family. And in that way, I am so blessed to be marrying Brad. He will be such a wonderful spiritual leader for our children, as he has been for me. We currently have our own joint devotional time, but we look forward to planning a family worship each week, just like his family did for him.
But this is not a new thing. Other characters in the Bible recognized the important role of family in their faith... such as the examples that follow.
Preparing the Family
5 David said, "My son Solomon is young and inexperienced, and the house to be built for the LORD should be of great magnificence and fame and splendor in the sight of all the nations. Therefore I will make preparations for it." So David made extensive preparations before his death.
6 Then he called for his son Solomon and charged him to build a house for the LORD, the God of Israel. 7 David said to Solomon: "My son, I had it in my heart to build a house for the Name of the LORD my God. 8 But this word of the LORD came to me: 'You have shed much blood and have fought many wars. You are not to build a house for my Name, because you have shed much blood on the earth in my sight. 9 But you will have a son who will be a man of peace and rest, and I will give him rest from all his enemies on every side. His name will be Solomon, [a] and I will grant Israel peace and quiet during his reign. 10 He is the one who will build a house for my Name. He will be my son, and I will be his father. And I will establish the throne of his kingdom over Israel forever.'
11 "Now, my son, the LORD be with you, and may you have success and build the house of the LORD your God, as he said you would. 12 May the LORD give you discretion and understanding when he puts you in command over Israel, so that you may keep the law of the LORD your God. 13 Then you will have success if you are careful to observe the decrees and laws that the LORD gave Moses for Israel. Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or discouraged. -1 Chronicles 22:5-11
David shows that caring for your family's spiritual development involves careful preparations, explanations, and encouragement. Right now, there are a lot of preparations going on for the wedding. My church family has been preparing the sanctuary with lovely clean walls and areas and a beautiful rose garden among other things! And the new technology will help me to incorporate my cousin Jonathan and his talents into the wedding. My cousins and friends have already prepared a perfect shower for me, which so many loving friends attended... making it all the sweeter! Mom & Dad C are carefully preparing the rehearsal dinner: who will be there and how it will go. My musical friends and family are preparing their own wonderful original music to play for me! My parents are carefully preparing the food, the reception, the flowers, the dress etc. My Uncle Rod, Dad C, & Dick are preparing their parts in the message. These careful preparations are very special gifts to Brad and myself. The gift of time, care and consideration. Gifts that show their love for us. They are our family... and they prepare us for the holy commitment involved in the marriage ceremony, a commitment sealed by our Father in heaven.
These are all preparations for a marriage, but even if we are not celebrating a marriage... every step of our family life from a new baby to a move to a retirement... every step includes preparing ourselves and our hearts for our spiritual commitment to the Lord. How will we teach this baby to know and love the Lord? How will we use our retirement to honor our Father? How will we use this marriage to symbolize the love Jesus has for us? Prepare your family for the moment where you are... to make that a moment for the Lord.
Teaching Your Family
4Jesus replied, "I tell you the truth, everyone who sins is a slave to sin. 35Now a slave has no permanent place in the family, but a son belongs to it forever. 36So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. 37I know you are Abraham's descendants. Yet you are ready to kill me, because you have no room for my word. 38I am telling you what I have seen in the Father's presence, and you do what you have heard from your father.[b]"
39"Abraham is our father," they answered.
"If you were Abraham's children," said Jesus, "then you would[c] do the things Abraham did. 40As it is, you are determined to kill me, a man who has told you the truth that I heard from God. Abraham did not do such things. 41You are doing the things your own father does."
"We are not illegitimate children," they protested. "The only Father we have is God himself."
42Jesus said to them, "If God were your Father, you would love me, for I came from God and now am here. I have not come on my own; but he sent me. 43Why is my language not clear to you? Because you are unable to hear what I say. 44You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father's desire. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies. 45Yet because I tell the truth, you do not believe me! 46Can any of you prove me guilty of sin? If I am telling the truth, why don't you believe me? 47He who belongs to God hears what God says. The reason you do not hear is that you do not belong to God." -John 8:4-42
This passage reminds me of my conversation with Brad the other day, just after we had brought home our new rescued sheltie puppy, Shaya.
Bradley: wow! I'm a daddy!
me: :o)
Bradley: can you send me a picture?
i want to see if she takes after me or not ;)
We're always looking to see if kids take after their parents, and not just in appearance. Fathers often say to kids, "You're just like your mother." Mothers say, "You're just like your father." Unfortunately this is very often when they are upset with their kids and the traits they've picked up. But once in a while, it is used as a compliment. One of the most beautiful compliments I've ever received is when people tell me I remind them of my nana. I only wish I were more like her.
but it's true. So much of who we are is formed by our family. As Jesus says, "If God were your Father, you would love me." Who do you love? Who don't you love? What do you act like? Is the person you are pointing to your heavenly Father? Do you take after Him?
But this is not a new thing. Other characters in the Bible recognized the important role of family in their faith... such as the examples that follow.
Preparing the Family
5 David said, "My son Solomon is young and inexperienced, and the house to be built for the LORD should be of great magnificence and fame and splendor in the sight of all the nations. Therefore I will make preparations for it." So David made extensive preparations before his death.
6 Then he called for his son Solomon and charged him to build a house for the LORD, the God of Israel. 7 David said to Solomon: "My son, I had it in my heart to build a house for the Name of the LORD my God. 8 But this word of the LORD came to me: 'You have shed much blood and have fought many wars. You are not to build a house for my Name, because you have shed much blood on the earth in my sight. 9 But you will have a son who will be a man of peace and rest, and I will give him rest from all his enemies on every side. His name will be Solomon, [a] and I will grant Israel peace and quiet during his reign. 10 He is the one who will build a house for my Name. He will be my son, and I will be his father. And I will establish the throne of his kingdom over Israel forever.'
11 "Now, my son, the LORD be with you, and may you have success and build the house of the LORD your God, as he said you would. 12 May the LORD give you discretion and understanding when he puts you in command over Israel, so that you may keep the law of the LORD your God. 13 Then you will have success if you are careful to observe the decrees and laws that the LORD gave Moses for Israel. Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or discouraged. -1 Chronicles 22:5-11
David shows that caring for your family's spiritual development involves careful preparations, explanations, and encouragement. Right now, there are a lot of preparations going on for the wedding. My church family has been preparing the sanctuary with lovely clean walls and areas and a beautiful rose garden among other things! And the new technology will help me to incorporate my cousin Jonathan and his talents into the wedding. My cousins and friends have already prepared a perfect shower for me, which so many loving friends attended... making it all the sweeter! Mom & Dad C are carefully preparing the rehearsal dinner: who will be there and how it will go. My musical friends and family are preparing their own wonderful original music to play for me! My parents are carefully preparing the food, the reception, the flowers, the dress etc. My Uncle Rod, Dad C, & Dick are preparing their parts in the message. These careful preparations are very special gifts to Brad and myself. The gift of time, care and consideration. Gifts that show their love for us. They are our family... and they prepare us for the holy commitment involved in the marriage ceremony, a commitment sealed by our Father in heaven.
These are all preparations for a marriage, but even if we are not celebrating a marriage... every step of our family life from a new baby to a move to a retirement... every step includes preparing ourselves and our hearts for our spiritual commitment to the Lord. How will we teach this baby to know and love the Lord? How will we use our retirement to honor our Father? How will we use this marriage to symbolize the love Jesus has for us? Prepare your family for the moment where you are... to make that a moment for the Lord.
Teaching Your Family
4Jesus replied, "I tell you the truth, everyone who sins is a slave to sin. 35Now a slave has no permanent place in the family, but a son belongs to it forever. 36So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. 37I know you are Abraham's descendants. Yet you are ready to kill me, because you have no room for my word. 38I am telling you what I have seen in the Father's presence, and you do what you have heard from your father.[b]"
39"Abraham is our father," they answered.
"If you were Abraham's children," said Jesus, "then you would[c] do the things Abraham did. 40As it is, you are determined to kill me, a man who has told you the truth that I heard from God. Abraham did not do such things. 41You are doing the things your own father does."
"We are not illegitimate children," they protested. "The only Father we have is God himself."
42Jesus said to them, "If God were your Father, you would love me, for I came from God and now am here. I have not come on my own; but he sent me. 43Why is my language not clear to you? Because you are unable to hear what I say. 44You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father's desire. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies. 45Yet because I tell the truth, you do not believe me! 46Can any of you prove me guilty of sin? If I am telling the truth, why don't you believe me? 47He who belongs to God hears what God says. The reason you do not hear is that you do not belong to God." -John 8:4-42
This passage reminds me of my conversation with Brad the other day, just after we had brought home our new rescued sheltie puppy, Shaya.
Bradley: wow! I'm a daddy!
me: :o)
Bradley: can you send me a picture?
i want to see if she takes after me or not ;)
We're always looking to see if kids take after their parents, and not just in appearance. Fathers often say to kids, "You're just like your mother." Mothers say, "You're just like your father." Unfortunately this is very often when they are upset with their kids and the traits they've picked up. But once in a while, it is used as a compliment. One of the most beautiful compliments I've ever received is when people tell me I remind them of my nana. I only wish I were more like her.
but it's true. So much of who we are is formed by our family. As Jesus says, "If God were your Father, you would love me." Who do you love? Who don't you love? What do you act like? Is the person you are pointing to your heavenly Father? Do you take after Him?
Saturday, May 22, 2010
A Small Joy as a Reminder of All Joys
Today I have a joy that is small in size but huge and wonderful in my heart! And she has the sweetest little tail! :o)
Many people don't look back to the Lord and thank God when they buy a puppy, but prayers of thanksgiving and praise are what this puppy brings me to... perhaps puppy praise. My Father who has created all things has once again provided for me.
8 Give thanks to the LORD, call on his name;
make known among the nations what he has done.
9 Sing to him, sing praise to him;
tell of all his wonderful acts.
10 Glory in his holy name;
let the hearts of those who seek the LORD rejoice.
11 Look to the LORD and his strength;
seek his face always.
12 Remember the wonders he has done,
his miracles, and the judgments he pronounced,
13 O descendants of Israel his servant,
O sons of Jacob, his chosen ones.
14 He is the LORD our God;
his judgments are in all the earth. - 1 Chronicles 16:8-14
And my heart echoes these sentiments. We should thank God for all things, even small things. Even small things are sometimes so important. Like a little puppy. She serves a great purpose for me. After puppy hunting for a couple of months, God has given me a friend for all times and a companion and protector that will be there for me at times when my other companion and protector is in Brazil doing research. Not necessarily a 'need,' but this puppy is a great joy nonetheless... and I'm so thankful for her.
Who can help but marvel at God's wonderful works, when watching a little puppy run or jump or play? All that God has made is wonderful, and I thank Him for this little one that I've come to love so quickly.
Let's thank God for the small joys that show God's greatness and remind us of all joys: for puppies, for church yard sales that bring the community together, for times with friends, for a Young Adult Conference, for a wedding that so many friends and family will gladly attend and participate in.
Many people don't look back to the Lord and thank God when they buy a puppy, but prayers of thanksgiving and praise are what this puppy brings me to... perhaps puppy praise. My Father who has created all things has once again provided for me.
8 Give thanks to the LORD, call on his name;
make known among the nations what he has done.
9 Sing to him, sing praise to him;
tell of all his wonderful acts.
10 Glory in his holy name;
let the hearts of those who seek the LORD rejoice.
11 Look to the LORD and his strength;
seek his face always.
12 Remember the wonders he has done,
his miracles, and the judgments he pronounced,
13 O descendants of Israel his servant,
O sons of Jacob, his chosen ones.
14 He is the LORD our God;
his judgments are in all the earth. - 1 Chronicles 16:8-14
And my heart echoes these sentiments. We should thank God for all things, even small things. Even small things are sometimes so important. Like a little puppy. She serves a great purpose for me. After puppy hunting for a couple of months, God has given me a friend for all times and a companion and protector that will be there for me at times when my other companion and protector is in Brazil doing research. Not necessarily a 'need,' but this puppy is a great joy nonetheless... and I'm so thankful for her.
Who can help but marvel at God's wonderful works, when watching a little puppy run or jump or play? All that God has made is wonderful, and I thank Him for this little one that I've come to love so quickly.
Let's thank God for the small joys that show God's greatness and remind us of all joys: for puppies, for church yard sales that bring the community together, for times with friends, for a Young Adult Conference, for a wedding that so many friends and family will gladly attend and participate in.
Friday, May 21, 2010
What Would your Brother Say? WWBS
You've often heard it said... What Would Jesus Do? WWJD? But... today, you can ask, what would your brother say? It's far too often that we find ourselves being overly critical of the people who are closest to us. It happens naturally. The closer you are to someone, the more you get to know the 'worse' along with the 'better' of your now only sometimes-seemingly-better-half. Parents, siblings, kids... we can see the faults and we hesitate to believe the best in spouses who were once the moon and stars in our eyes, and parents who were once super man, and kids who at one point never did any wrong. But now, we see the wrong... and because of our deep sense of commitment, we're too quick to point it out.
For example, let's look at Jesus' brothers in this section.
1After this, Jesus went around in Galilee, purposely staying away from Judea because the Jews there were waiting to take his life. 2But when the Jewish Feast of Tabernacles was near, 3Jesus' brothers said to him, "You ought to leave here and go to Judea, so that your disciples may see the miracles you do. 4No one who wants to become a public figure acts in secret. Since you are doing these things, show yourself to the world." 5For even his own brothers did not believe in him.
6Therefore Jesus told them, "The right time for me has not yet come; for you any time is right. 7The world cannot hate you, but it hates me because I testify that what it does is evil. 8You go to the Feast. I am not yet[a] going up to this Feast, because for me the right time has not yet come." 9Having said this, he stayed in Galilee.
10However, after his brothers had left for the Feast, he went also, not publicly, but in secret. 11Now at the Feast the Jews were watching for him and asking, "Where is that man?"
12Among the crowds there was widespread whispering about him. Some said, "He is a good man."
Others replied, "No, he deceives the people." 13But no one would say anything publicly about him for fear of the Jews. -John 7: 1-13
Poor Jesus. It's a tough life. Not even his brothers believe him. In fact, it's interesting, because they're admitting that He's done miracles. But it's almost as if they're saying, "Ok, sure. You can make things happen here at home. But prove it. Prove that you're the real deal. Do something someplace else."
And that's why it's important to consider what my Uncle Rod often points out and what I refer to as "the James test." If, after everything was said and done, Jesus' brother who saw Jesus through the 'worse' as well as the 'better' wrote a whole book explaining that Jesus was the son of God... that's really something. As Uncle Rod says, "Because I know my brother, and you know your brother, and we know they are great... but they are not Christ." If anyone knows you, it's your immediate family. And I'm sure it wasn't an easy thing to proclaim, but even after moments of doubt and disbelief... in the end James knew his brother.
So, for those moments of disbelief, remember "the James test." And take another look through that book of the Bible for an inspiring 'inside scoop' of the life of our Lord.
For example, let's look at Jesus' brothers in this section.
1After this, Jesus went around in Galilee, purposely staying away from Judea because the Jews there were waiting to take his life. 2But when the Jewish Feast of Tabernacles was near, 3Jesus' brothers said to him, "You ought to leave here and go to Judea, so that your disciples may see the miracles you do. 4No one who wants to become a public figure acts in secret. Since you are doing these things, show yourself to the world." 5For even his own brothers did not believe in him.
6Therefore Jesus told them, "The right time for me has not yet come; for you any time is right. 7The world cannot hate you, but it hates me because I testify that what it does is evil. 8You go to the Feast. I am not yet[a] going up to this Feast, because for me the right time has not yet come." 9Having said this, he stayed in Galilee.
10However, after his brothers had left for the Feast, he went also, not publicly, but in secret. 11Now at the Feast the Jews were watching for him and asking, "Where is that man?"
12Among the crowds there was widespread whispering about him. Some said, "He is a good man."
Others replied, "No, he deceives the people." 13But no one would say anything publicly about him for fear of the Jews. -John 7: 1-13
Poor Jesus. It's a tough life. Not even his brothers believe him. In fact, it's interesting, because they're admitting that He's done miracles. But it's almost as if they're saying, "Ok, sure. You can make things happen here at home. But prove it. Prove that you're the real deal. Do something someplace else."
And that's why it's important to consider what my Uncle Rod often points out and what I refer to as "the James test." If, after everything was said and done, Jesus' brother who saw Jesus through the 'worse' as well as the 'better' wrote a whole book explaining that Jesus was the son of God... that's really something. As Uncle Rod says, "Because I know my brother, and you know your brother, and we know they are great... but they are not Christ." If anyone knows you, it's your immediate family. And I'm sure it wasn't an easy thing to proclaim, but even after moments of doubt and disbelief... in the end James knew his brother.
So, for those moments of disbelief, remember "the James test." And take another look through that book of the Bible for an inspiring 'inside scoop' of the life of our Lord.
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Faith as Work
We often think of the James v. Paul debate. One emphasizes work; the other faith. Well, both come into the ring today as Jesus defines faith as work. It may be the work passed down from generations or a new type of work based on your context, but it's an interesting and different type of way for me to think about faith... and all the 'work' involved in having faith... during those even difficult times.
The Work of God
Another generation arose after them who did not know the Lord nor the work which He had done for Israel. —Judges 2:10
The ODB reflection cited this verse today, and I remember what it means to remember 'the work which God has done for Israel.' In fact, it reminds me of the Jewish song 'dayenu': it would've been enough. Juniata's Baccalaureate service went through a short reflection on this phrase and how it is used to recount the many blessings and miracles in the lives of the Jews. It would've been enough. And I look to this verse, and I believe it's all too true. How often do we pause to reflect on what would the Lord has done for us, for all of us. For, we have a part with the Israelites now... their story is now ours, and we can now rejoice that...
Dayenu... it would've been enough for God to part the red sea
Dayenu... it would've been enough for God to send His son
Dayenu... it would've been enough to bless me with Brad in my life
And I pray that I may remember to recount and remember God's many great and wonderful works all the days of my life, because it's all too tempting to forget that it is enough. Though the beauty of our love is amazing, I forget that it's enough. But it's so important for me to remember right now that this marriage is enough, in spite of what the flowers look like or whether feel the most beautiful or whether there will be what kind of dancing and if the dance goes well. The blessing of our love is enough, and this beautiful work of God gives us faith in a gracious and kind and wonderful heavenly Father who has united us.
The Work for God... Passed Down Through Generations
19 Shallum son of Kore, the son of Ebiasaph, the son of Korah, and his fellow gatekeepers from his family (the Korahites) were responsible for guarding the thresholds of the Tent [l] just as their fathers had been responsible for guarding the entrance to the dwelling of the LORD. 20 In earlier times Phinehas son of Eleazar was in charge of the gatekeepers, and the LORD was with him. 21 Zechariah son of Meshelemiah was the gatekeeper at the entrance to the Tent of Meeting. -1 Chronicles 9:19-21
Families also pass down their faith and their work for God. We can see this clearly in the different denominations that specialize in one work or another. Brethren are big on service. Other churches devote themselves to upholding the authority of scripture. Others dedicate themselves to evangelism. And perhaps this isn't a bad thing. I mean, we all know the phrase "jack of all trades and ace of none." If we try to dominate everything, it's first of all prideful and second of all un-biblical. This is exactly why Paul used the image of the church as a body. Perhaps we often think of that body on too small a scale. Instead, envisioning the Church, we can see how different congregations and denominations act as hands, eyes, feet, etc. Ever faithful to the gifts that God has given them, ever faithful to the Lord they believe in... their faith is reflected in the work that they do.
The Work Required by God... Having Faith
28Then they asked him, "What must we do to do the works God requires?"
29Jesus answered, "The work of God is this: to believe in the one he has sent."
30So they asked him, "What miraculous sign then will you give that we may see it and believe you? What will you do? 31Our forefathers ate the manna in the desert; as it is written: 'He gave them bread from heaven to eat.'[a]"
32Jesus said to them, "I tell you the truth, it is not Moses who has given you the bread from heaven, but it is my Father who gives you the true bread from heaven. 33For the bread of God is he who comes down from heaven and gives life to the world."
34"Sir," they said, "from now on give us this bread."
35Then Jesus declared, "I am the bread of life. He who comes to me will never go hungry, and he who believes in me will never be thirsty. 36But as I told you, you have seen me and still you do not believe. 37All that the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away. 38For I have come down from heaven not to do my will but to do the will of him who sent me. 39And this is the will of him who sent me, that I shall lose none of all that he has given me, but raise them up at the last day. 40For my Father's will is that everyone who looks to the Son and believes in him shall have eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day." - John 6:28-40
This is the verse that stood out the most to me today... the work of the Lord is this: that you believe in the one He sent. Belief! How can belief be work? That's the work that is required of the Lord? Well, it obviously isn't an easy task. The crowd is told they need to believe, and what do they ask for? More proof.
In today's incredulous and cynical society, belief is hard to come by, perhaps even more in grad school where we are taught 'critical thinking skills' and 'to question everything.' But it's not only a grad school thing. I'm convinced that the larger society is copying this trend, and it's harder and harder to believe, to really believe. Couples who don't really believe in marriage sign pre-nuptual agreements. Police who don't believe in individual's words file false reports. My high school teacher Dr. Kreider practiced something which is probably long gone from high school classrooms nowadays. The honor code... she left the room, believing that her students would not cheat. Her belief in our own ethical code was empowering to me, and her actions (work) went along with her belief. You could see it.
Ask yourself again... do you believe? Do you really believe? Are you living like you believe? Can you see it? If you really believe that Jesus sent His son, what would you do? Who would you tell? How would you respond? Would you praise Him right now? Would you tell that neighbor and remind them of the blessing that frees us? Would you respond by continuing His work of love and grace and service here on earth?
Do the work required of you... have faith, believe.
The Work of God
Another generation arose after them who did not know the Lord nor the work which He had done for Israel. —Judges 2:10
The ODB reflection cited this verse today, and I remember what it means to remember 'the work which God has done for Israel.' In fact, it reminds me of the Jewish song 'dayenu': it would've been enough. Juniata's Baccalaureate service went through a short reflection on this phrase and how it is used to recount the many blessings and miracles in the lives of the Jews. It would've been enough. And I look to this verse, and I believe it's all too true. How often do we pause to reflect on what would the Lord has done for us, for all of us. For, we have a part with the Israelites now... their story is now ours, and we can now rejoice that...
Dayenu... it would've been enough for God to part the red sea
Dayenu... it would've been enough for God to send His son
Dayenu... it would've been enough to bless me with Brad in my life
And I pray that I may remember to recount and remember God's many great and wonderful works all the days of my life, because it's all too tempting to forget that it is enough. Though the beauty of our love is amazing, I forget that it's enough. But it's so important for me to remember right now that this marriage is enough, in spite of what the flowers look like or whether feel the most beautiful or whether there will be what kind of dancing and if the dance goes well. The blessing of our love is enough, and this beautiful work of God gives us faith in a gracious and kind and wonderful heavenly Father who has united us.
The Work for God... Passed Down Through Generations
19 Shallum son of Kore, the son of Ebiasaph, the son of Korah, and his fellow gatekeepers from his family (the Korahites) were responsible for guarding the thresholds of the Tent [l] just as their fathers had been responsible for guarding the entrance to the dwelling of the LORD. 20 In earlier times Phinehas son of Eleazar was in charge of the gatekeepers, and the LORD was with him. 21 Zechariah son of Meshelemiah was the gatekeeper at the entrance to the Tent of Meeting. -1 Chronicles 9:19-21
Families also pass down their faith and their work for God. We can see this clearly in the different denominations that specialize in one work or another. Brethren are big on service. Other churches devote themselves to upholding the authority of scripture. Others dedicate themselves to evangelism. And perhaps this isn't a bad thing. I mean, we all know the phrase "jack of all trades and ace of none." If we try to dominate everything, it's first of all prideful and second of all un-biblical. This is exactly why Paul used the image of the church as a body. Perhaps we often think of that body on too small a scale. Instead, envisioning the Church, we can see how different congregations and denominations act as hands, eyes, feet, etc. Ever faithful to the gifts that God has given them, ever faithful to the Lord they believe in... their faith is reflected in the work that they do.
The Work Required by God... Having Faith
28Then they asked him, "What must we do to do the works God requires?"
29Jesus answered, "The work of God is this: to believe in the one he has sent."
30So they asked him, "What miraculous sign then will you give that we may see it and believe you? What will you do? 31Our forefathers ate the manna in the desert; as it is written: 'He gave them bread from heaven to eat.'[a]"
32Jesus said to them, "I tell you the truth, it is not Moses who has given you the bread from heaven, but it is my Father who gives you the true bread from heaven. 33For the bread of God is he who comes down from heaven and gives life to the world."
34"Sir," they said, "from now on give us this bread."
35Then Jesus declared, "I am the bread of life. He who comes to me will never go hungry, and he who believes in me will never be thirsty. 36But as I told you, you have seen me and still you do not believe. 37All that the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away. 38For I have come down from heaven not to do my will but to do the will of him who sent me. 39And this is the will of him who sent me, that I shall lose none of all that he has given me, but raise them up at the last day. 40For my Father's will is that everyone who looks to the Son and believes in him shall have eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day." - John 6:28-40
This is the verse that stood out the most to me today... the work of the Lord is this: that you believe in the one He sent. Belief! How can belief be work? That's the work that is required of the Lord? Well, it obviously isn't an easy task. The crowd is told they need to believe, and what do they ask for? More proof.
In today's incredulous and cynical society, belief is hard to come by, perhaps even more in grad school where we are taught 'critical thinking skills' and 'to question everything.' But it's not only a grad school thing. I'm convinced that the larger society is copying this trend, and it's harder and harder to believe, to really believe. Couples who don't really believe in marriage sign pre-nuptual agreements. Police who don't believe in individual's words file false reports. My high school teacher Dr. Kreider practiced something which is probably long gone from high school classrooms nowadays. The honor code... she left the room, believing that her students would not cheat. Her belief in our own ethical code was empowering to me, and her actions (work) went along with her belief. You could see it.
Ask yourself again... do you believe? Do you really believe? Are you living like you believe? Can you see it? If you really believe that Jesus sent His son, what would you do? Who would you tell? How would you respond? Would you praise Him right now? Would you tell that neighbor and remind them of the blessing that frees us? Would you respond by continuing His work of love and grace and service here on earth?
Do the work required of you... have faith, believe.
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
The Liabilities of Legalism
Recently, I've been learning about the 'liabilities of legalism' and it's reminding me of our study of Romans this year. Laws, rules, they're all good and well. But there are times when the way we think about the world and the regulations that frame things hinder productivity. Examples abound in the Bible and in our lives.
But it's the boy's personal food...
5When Jesus looked up and saw a great crowd coming toward him, he said to Philip, "Where shall we buy bread for these people to eat?" 6He asked this only to test him, for he already had in mind what he was going to do.
7Philip answered him, "Eight months' wages[a] would not buy enough bread for each one to have a bite!"
8Another of his disciples, Andrew, Simon Peter's brother, spoke up, 9"Here is a boy with five small barley loaves and two small fish, but how far will they go among so many?"
10Jesus said, "Have the people sit down." There was plenty of grass in that place, and the men sat down, about five thousand of them. 11Jesus then took the loaves, gave thanks, and distributed to those who were seated as much as they wanted. He did the same with the fish.
12When they had all had enough to eat, he said to his disciples, "Gather the pieces that are left over. Let nothing be wasted." 13So they gathered them and filled twelve baskets with the pieces of the five barley loaves left over by those who had eaten. -John 6:5-13
Just imagine what would've happened if the disciples had objected with this remark: "But that's the boy's own personal food" instead of obeying what Jesus said. "No, no... we'd have to compensate him for the fish and loaves. How many dinari do you have on you, J?" Such legalism would've prevented the whole crowd from enjoying a satisfying meal.
On Thursday morning, I encountered a similar situation. Utterly exhausted after several all-nighters, I slept 4 hours later than usual, until 10am. But I woke up as excited as ever, ready to enjoy a run for the first time in a week. So, I went off, forgetting that 10am in May in Tucson is not a great time for a 10 miler. Over half way through the run, I became extremely exhausted and dehydrated. I stopped at a nice little bagel place, sitting down 4 times from the dizziness before I could manage to stand and ask for a cup of water. They told me it would be $1.40, and I looked on in amazement. I was clearly not doing well here, and as I said, "Not even a cup of water so I can get back to campus?" tears welled up in my eyes... worsened by the fact that I had a dollar, but that was not good enough for them. I was missing 40 cents. Next door at a little Mexican fast food restaurant, I asked for a cup of water and said, "Please. I need a cup of water. I have a dollar." The lovely Mexican lady behind the counter said, "Water?" She handed me a styrofoam cup and didn't touch my money. She encouraged me to get water from the array of fountain sodas, no questions asked.
This whole episode made me think of the role of rules in our lives, especially in terms of giving. Do we ever look into someone's eyes and say coldly, "You're forty cents short" instead of offering "a cup of cold water to someone in need"? God challenges us to love, above all things love one another... love is the law that crosses all sorts of boundaries.
But you can't walk on water...
19When they had rowed three or three and a half miles,[b] they saw Jesus approaching the boat, walking on the water; and they were terrified. 20But he said to them, "It is I; don't be afraid." 21Then they were willing to take him into the boat, and immediately the boat reached the shore where they were heading. -John 6:19-20
Another common legality that often hinders our vivacity and our living is from our 'can'ts', the impossibilities we see in our lives. In this instance and also when Peter walked on water, we were amazed at Jesus' ability to do the impossible. As we are reminded, "if we say to the mountain move, it will throw itself into the ocean." But how many times are we afraid when we confront impossibilities?
The last few weeks in Tucson, it was Finals time... high stress and high pressure building up around me, to the point that I really began to question my ability to continue in a Ph.D. program. I began to say, "But, Katie, you can't do a Ph.D... you're not smart enough, you're not original enough, you don't want it enough. You're not competitive enough." And blessings surrounded me in the form of encouraging colleagues like Sonya and Deida. My professors offered helpful suggestions, and the International School of Tucson confirmed their interest in participating in my dissertation research. Every one of these important words guided me towards the water and made me believe that I really can and will walk the waters of a Ph.D., and I don't need to be afraid.
Whether we set rules upon our wedding ceremonies (how it should go), our names (how they should/shouldn't change), lives (how they should be lived)... God teaches us that what is more important than the impossibilities is the possibilities, the people are more important than the product, than the process or even the profit. The liabilities of legalism are great... they can keep us from reaching out to others, and they can also keep us from reaching our own God-given potential.
But it's the boy's personal food...
5When Jesus looked up and saw a great crowd coming toward him, he said to Philip, "Where shall we buy bread for these people to eat?" 6He asked this only to test him, for he already had in mind what he was going to do.
7Philip answered him, "Eight months' wages[a] would not buy enough bread for each one to have a bite!"
8Another of his disciples, Andrew, Simon Peter's brother, spoke up, 9"Here is a boy with five small barley loaves and two small fish, but how far will they go among so many?"
10Jesus said, "Have the people sit down." There was plenty of grass in that place, and the men sat down, about five thousand of them. 11Jesus then took the loaves, gave thanks, and distributed to those who were seated as much as they wanted. He did the same with the fish.
12When they had all had enough to eat, he said to his disciples, "Gather the pieces that are left over. Let nothing be wasted." 13So they gathered them and filled twelve baskets with the pieces of the five barley loaves left over by those who had eaten. -John 6:5-13
Just imagine what would've happened if the disciples had objected with this remark: "But that's the boy's own personal food" instead of obeying what Jesus said. "No, no... we'd have to compensate him for the fish and loaves. How many dinari do you have on you, J?" Such legalism would've prevented the whole crowd from enjoying a satisfying meal.
On Thursday morning, I encountered a similar situation. Utterly exhausted after several all-nighters, I slept 4 hours later than usual, until 10am. But I woke up as excited as ever, ready to enjoy a run for the first time in a week. So, I went off, forgetting that 10am in May in Tucson is not a great time for a 10 miler. Over half way through the run, I became extremely exhausted and dehydrated. I stopped at a nice little bagel place, sitting down 4 times from the dizziness before I could manage to stand and ask for a cup of water. They told me it would be $1.40, and I looked on in amazement. I was clearly not doing well here, and as I said, "Not even a cup of water so I can get back to campus?" tears welled up in my eyes... worsened by the fact that I had a dollar, but that was not good enough for them. I was missing 40 cents. Next door at a little Mexican fast food restaurant, I asked for a cup of water and said, "Please. I need a cup of water. I have a dollar." The lovely Mexican lady behind the counter said, "Water?" She handed me a styrofoam cup and didn't touch my money. She encouraged me to get water from the array of fountain sodas, no questions asked.
This whole episode made me think of the role of rules in our lives, especially in terms of giving. Do we ever look into someone's eyes and say coldly, "You're forty cents short" instead of offering "a cup of cold water to someone in need"? God challenges us to love, above all things love one another... love is the law that crosses all sorts of boundaries.
But you can't walk on water...
19When they had rowed three or three and a half miles,[b] they saw Jesus approaching the boat, walking on the water; and they were terrified. 20But he said to them, "It is I; don't be afraid." 21Then they were willing to take him into the boat, and immediately the boat reached the shore where they were heading. -John 6:19-20
Another common legality that often hinders our vivacity and our living is from our 'can'ts', the impossibilities we see in our lives. In this instance and also when Peter walked on water, we were amazed at Jesus' ability to do the impossible. As we are reminded, "if we say to the mountain move, it will throw itself into the ocean." But how many times are we afraid when we confront impossibilities?
The last few weeks in Tucson, it was Finals time... high stress and high pressure building up around me, to the point that I really began to question my ability to continue in a Ph.D. program. I began to say, "But, Katie, you can't do a Ph.D... you're not smart enough, you're not original enough, you don't want it enough. You're not competitive enough." And blessings surrounded me in the form of encouraging colleagues like Sonya and Deida. My professors offered helpful suggestions, and the International School of Tucson confirmed their interest in participating in my dissertation research. Every one of these important words guided me towards the water and made me believe that I really can and will walk the waters of a Ph.D., and I don't need to be afraid.
Whether we set rules upon our wedding ceremonies (how it should go), our names (how they should/shouldn't change), lives (how they should be lived)... God teaches us that what is more important than the impossibilities is the possibilities, the people are more important than the product, than the process or even the profit. The liabilities of legalism are great... they can keep us from reaching out to others, and they can also keep us from reaching our own God-given potential.
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